Time for a change of pace-- I have had too many people want to exchange personal emails then ignore me completely or want me to pay for more of their letters. DO NOT begin by calling me "honey" or "dear" -- we need to grow into that relationship! The idea is we can become more personal!! I will begin by looking at your profile and sending a smile if I am interested. I am a sincere and gentle person, well educated and in a career I love. BUT be aware - I have slowed down a great deal from my younger days due to age and injury. If you want someone to go mountain climbing, etc. with you, I am not the one. I am more inclined to quieter endeavours. I am a good listener and a caring partner. I think we can talk here but a REAL MEETING IS ESSENTIAL if we are to progress. THIS MEETING MUST TAKE PLACE IN ENGLAND OR WESTERN EUROPE!! I am NOT interested in 20 emails back and forth go end up going nowhere - my time is to short and too important for that. I believe in compromise when dealing with people, but will aggressively defend myself when necessary. I detest scammers and frauds and gold-diggers and will do all I can to report them and see them incarcerated. That includes those I spoke about at the start. I love to travel and meet people and learn about their culture. A quick exchange of emails, if you are committed is perhaps best ..... James

IF YOU ARE YOUNG ENOUGH TO BE MY DAUGHTER OR GRANDDAUGHTER SAVE THE EFFORT!!!REeally I do not want a woman in her 20-30-40s. You DO NOT begin by calling me "Honey or Dear" when you do not even know me! I am not as active as when I was younger so enjoy more relaxed endeavours. I will look at your profile and send a "smile" if I am interested. A few emails to get to know each other better then we make our plans. You have been through a great deal in the last year, and I want to make this time special for us both. You should be sincere and calm. Both
dependent and independent. Hopefully you have some English but our translator phones will handle that. We will begin as friends here and then MAKE A REAL MEETING IN ENGLAND OR WESTERN EUROPE ( Colour of skin does not matter; not too tall and definitely not too large. She likes to hold hands, cuddle and kiss. She must accept that I am not as young as I once was and have some limitations in activities. You will be way ahead of me in fitness and exercise and will need to accept that. Trying to change me will not work - let's make this a fantastic first step!